Getting hitched...

Dave in VA · 08-30-2010, 06:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SpoiledRotten

I was "marred" to the first wife for 19 years. Now, I'm "married" to a good one and we're celebrating our 10th in Sept. 2010. (yes, in a few days)

Good luck with yours. Hope you get the right one the first time around.

Randy--Congrats to you and Mrs Rotten

SpoiledRotten · 08-30-2010, 06:58 PM

Thanks Dave!

Strawhead · 08-30-2010, 07:04 PM

Why ruin a good relationship by bringing lawyers into it?
Do you need a tax break? Better health insurance?
How is that piece of paper going to improve your lives?
Just have a reception-----
As a wise man once said "If I ever want to get married-I'll just find a woman I don't like & buy her a house".
PRENUP,PRENUP,PRENUP!!!!

Some people say that I'm jaded...I don't see it (HA)
Good Luck, Just make sure you both are in the same spot.

ALL The Best (I really do mean it!)

LostHusker · 08-30-2010, 07:25 PM

Just remember she is always right, and YES DEAR always seems to work, now go get the prenup

Rodger's Rides · 08-30-2010, 08:27 PM

There is no good advice on what it takes to make your marriage work. Only the two of you will know what works for you and what don't. Trust me after the divorce lawyers I have paid working out situations is a lot cheaper in the long run (within reasion of course). My wife and I met thru the internet, three weeks later we were saying our "I DOs". December 2010 will be 13 years ago and we have had no "fights". Disagreed a few times but we agreed to talk like adults and never call each other names. Once the name calling starts, the marriage is over. Good luck and congats.

LuauLounge · 08-30-2010, 09:56 PM

After living together for 27 years, I married my best friend. We have been married for 13 years. We both have the same interests, same long term goals, run a business together, spend about 20 hours a day together.
She makes her own decisions, I make mine. We discuss decisions that affect us both.

One in a million...

Tonka329 · 08-30-2010, 10:07 PM

Thanks guys!

I "try" to include her on as much Carting stuff as I can. I think she will be helping me with my new mods

We have a G1 and a G9. I think I will let her have the G1

I tell her it's fast and she likes what she hears! So, I guess I'm doing good so far! Need a BB! Come on wedding money!!!

Thanks for the help guys! Just a bit nervous here...

Rodger's Rides · 08-31-2010, 07:50 PM

Tonka...did you say she was fast? or did I mis-read that?

Good luck and I wish you many years of happiness for both of you.

Ol Jake · 08-31-2010, 08:26 PM

Tonka329,

Always remember, "a suuccessful marriage depends on two things: (1) finding the right person and (2) being the right person."

Happiness to you both always...

smallblock450sl · 08-31-2010, 08:31 PM

Congarates Tonka. Don't go to bed mad, is my advice. Don't be a mean drinker and if she doesn't like golf car's, don't force it...there are many more things you can enjoy togeather. Listen to me, I sound like I know what I'm talking about.....Joyce wants me to go up in a hot air balloon in 2 weeks, "that will not happen", but I will "wave to her" as she's having fun. If you can have fun, and she can have fun....Tell her you love her and you will get more then you expect in return. I think that's the way it works

08-30-2010, 06:58 PM	#12
SpoiledRotten Conservatively Wild Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Below the Mason Dixon Posts: 3,610	Re: Getting hitched... Thanks Dave!

08-30-2010, 07:04 PM	#13
Strawhead Future World Dictator Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Bensenville,IL (Chicago) Posts: 1,752	Re: Getting hitched... Why ruin a good relationship by bringing lawyers into it? Do you need a tax break? Better health insurance? How is that piece of paper going to improve your lives? Just have a reception----- As a wise man once said "If I ever want to get married-I'll just find a woman I don't like & buy her a house". PRENUP,PRENUP,PRENUP!!!! Some people say that I'm jaded...I don't see it (HA) Good Luck, Just make sure you both are in the same spot. ALL The Best (I really do mean it!)

08-30-2010, 07:25 PM	#14
LostHusker Just one day at a time Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: South TX Posts: 8,650	Re: Getting hitched... Just remember she is always right, and YES DEAR always seems to work, now go get the prenup

08-30-2010, 08:27 PM	#15
Rodger's Rides Totally Bonkers! Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Full time RVing Posts: 1,897	Re: Getting hitched... There is no good advice on what it takes to make your marriage work. Only the two of you will know what works for you and what don't. Trust me after the divorce lawyers I have paid working out situations is a lot cheaper in the long run (within reasion of course). My wife and I met thru the internet, three weeks later we were saying our "I DOs". December 2010 will be 13 years ago and we have had no "fights". Disagreed a few times but we agreed to talk like adults and never call each other names. Once the name calling starts, the marriage is over. Good luck and congats.

08-30-2010, 09:56 PM	#16
LuauLounge Not Yet Wild Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Isleton, CA Posts: 65	Re: Getting hitched... After living together for 27 years, I married my best friend. We have been married for 13 years. We both have the same interests, same long term goals, run a business together, spend about 20 hours a day together. She makes her own decisions, I make mine. We discuss decisions that affect us both. One in a million...

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08-30-2010, 10:07 PM	#17
Tonka329 Smoov az a gravy sammich Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Limestone, Illinois Posts: 3,462	Re: Getting hitched... Thanks guys! I "try" to include her on as much Carting stuff as I can. I think she will be helping me with my new mods We have a G1 and a G9. I think I will let her have the G1 I tell her it's fast and she likes what she hears! So, I guess I'm doing good so far! Need a BB! Come on wedding money!!! Thanks for the help guys! Just a bit nervous here...

08-31-2010, 07:50 PM	#18
Rodger's Rides Totally Bonkers! Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Full time RVing Posts: 1,897	Re: Getting hitched... Tonka...did you say she was fast? or did I mis-read that? Good luck and I wish you many years of happiness for both of you.

08-31-2010, 08:26 PM	#19
Ol Jake Gone Wild Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: NorthEast, Pa. Posts: 323	Re: Getting hitched... Tonka329, Always remember, "a suuccessful marriage depends on two things: (1) finding the right person and (2) being the right person." Happiness to you both always...

08-31-2010, 08:31 PM	#20
smallblock450sl Sometime's............ Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Tacoma Washington Posts: 11,875	Re: Getting hitched... Congarates Tonka. Don't go to bed mad, is my advice. Don't be a mean drinker and if she doesn't like golf car's, don't force it...there are many more things you can enjoy togeather. Listen to me, I sound like I know what I'm talking about.....Joyce wants me to go up in a hot air balloon in 2 weeks, "that will not happen", but I will "wave to her" as she's having fun. If you can have fun, and she can have fun....Tell her you love her and you will get more then you expect in return. I think that's the way it works